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This is a real problem or disorder and should
be taken seriously. We as human beings do two things
when there is a feeling inside that we don't like, we distract and
comfort. This is especially true with the "Too Much'es"
I drink too much, smoke too much, etc...
There is a feeling that you don't
like and it is forcing you to spend and shop, shop, shop.
While you're engaged in that activity you are pushing that feeling
away or comforting yourself. The moment
that we discover the feeling and remove it is the moment you will
not be doing this any longer.
This can also be associated with
wanting to please others... because you really need their approval.
I've seen this one as well. But instead
of using your conscious mind to try and figure it out, which you
will never do, allow us to find the emotion that is causing this
behavior and clear it away there, at it's source.
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